On Children
Kahlil GibranYour children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let our bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable.
I was just reading Bobbie's blog and was reminded that todays is poem in your pocket day. Here is a poem that I read, and reread now a days as my babies are turning into preteens :)
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When they set the kids free, only then, they can know how high the kids can soar... against the winds of life's suffering.
But I think a parent's biggest fear is about the path their child would choose in life... that of moral values or weak character. Parents can only influence their thinking as far as instilling values in them. The decision is solely in the kids' hands... as you've rightly pointed out:
"You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow"
this is a message most parents must understand...
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